This February’s Flower is the Carnation. Mostly because I already highlighted the Rose here. When I think of February, I think of Valentine’s Day, and when I think of Valentines I think of Roses. But Carnation is a good choice as it’s a popular flower due to its ability to grow well, which makes it an affordable option for most people. When I think of Carnation I think of friendship more than romance. And that kind of goes along with this years Valentines theme for me personally. Don’t get me wrong, I like romance too, and my life has its fair share as I’ve been married for almost 30 years to my sweetheart. But sometimes friendship and self-love need to be celebrated too, and I have found myself more in the mood for that this season as I am super grateful for the community of friends I have this year.

A little Carnation history
The Carnation is one of the oldest cultivated flowers. It has been around since the Greek and Roman times. Some legends say that the Greek botanist Theophrastus gave the flower the scientific name of Dianthus which is a combination of the Greek words Dios, which means divine or “of Zues” and Anthos, the word for flower. So it was known as “The flower of Zues”.
Another legend of the Carnation is that the flower sprung up where each tear of the Virgin Mary fell after Christ’s crucifixion. And thus the name “Carnation” comes from Christ being the “incarnation” of God as man.
Originally a wild plant in Europe, it was introduced to England by the Normans and later cultivated and bred in many varieties by the Victorians in an almost endless variety of colors and variegations.
The Victorian Language of Flowers
Those of you who have been reading the blog regularly know about the Victorian Language of Flowers that sparked my interest a while ago. You can read more on that here. The diagram below shows how Carnation was used in this strange but obviously beautiful language among Victorian elites to say what they needed to say to one another.

Also- Carnation is the birth flower for those born in January! As much as I would have loved to highlight Carnation in January, Snowdrop went with the Imbolc post better. I try my best to make things flow, but sometimes I have to make choices on what flows best. Can you guess what flower is for February? Yep, just like mentioned above, it’s Rose. So I guess this is another reason to choose Carnation for this post since we already highlighted Rose…
This charming little flower works wonders as a substitute in spells for protection, healing, and cleansing. They are pretty easily sourced which makes them a great versatile and ready flower for spell work. We are neighbors with a cute little flower shop called “The Front Porch Flowers, and Carnations are almost always found in their cooler. So keep that in mind next time you need one, or just want to enjoy one!


