If you were hoping for a post on romance and love spells, well, I am sorry to maybe disappoint you. I may try to throw a little something in at the end of this post for those of you really wanting that vibe. But really, this year has me more in the mood for celebrating the love for friends, and even self. I adore my sweetheart, and we have plenty of romance in our lives even still after 30 plus years of being together. But lately I have found myself also super grateful for my beautiful circle of friends, and how they have led me into my own practice of self-love.

Surrounding yourself with people who hold a similar vibration to you is so soothing and beautiful. It’s harmonious and peaceful, easy and crazy fun. I feel so lucky to have a large handful of such friends in my life right now. I want to celebrate these sacred relationships and give thanks to the Universe for the connections we have. So most of my Valentine’s Day will be doing just that. I plan to take a moment at my altar to meditate and say a prayer of gratitude and love for these divine friendships. And then I plan to do some self care afterwards. After all, being in my best form helps me to be the best for those I love too. We have to take care of ourselves first, so that we can have a full cup if we need to offer some of ourselves to others.

I used to sort of roll my eyes at self-care. But I get it now. I’m not going to pretend I am perfect at it by any means, but I am getting better at it every day. It really has helped me to be the best version of myself. And when my cup is full, I have more to give to my husband, and children, and everyone I love.

So if you are planning on doing Valentine’s Day differently this year too, please feel free to sample my plans if you like. And if you plan to make it about romance, then tuck this away for later when you are ready for your own time.

Here’s how I plan to celebrate this year-

And if you are planning to celebrate romantically, go for it! I do think it’s rather special that Valentine’s Day falls on Friday this year. After-all, Friday is ruled by the planet Venus, and is the day for all things love related. So you will surely have all that energy working for you and boosting those romantic moments!

Be sure to wear pink for another extra boost too!
And if you want to know about sexy time crystals, read this. Or want to know how to maybe keep the bedroom mojo working longer, read here.

However you choose to celebrate this Valentine’s Day, I hope you have a wonderful time, and that above all, you know you are loved.